“Momma says that there is only so much fortune a man really needs, and the rest is just for showing off.” –Forrest Gump
It might seem a bit strange to be taking pointers from a fictional character, but I love this statement. In fact, I love pretty much everything about the 1994 Classic, Forrest Gump; the honesty, humility, and lovable-ness of preserved innocence in a corruptible world.
Every time I see reruns on TBS (I own the movie, but put up with commercials anyway), the memorable quotes stay with me for a while, and a most recent viewing left the above sentence resonating. With the April 27th tornados still looming large here in Alabama; with our annual United Way Campaign on the horizon, I was already milling the topic of financial responsibility.
A large part of the DoGoodedness Principle is grounded in making decisions based on what is good for yourself, your family, and those around you (your community). Being a good steward financially is about using what you “need” and sharing the rest. Now, “need” is defined differently by pretty much everyone (hence my quotations), but you get the picture.
The American Dream is often misconstrued into living a life of excess. However, an “I earned it, so I can do what I want” mentality only serves to fuel greed, unhappiness, and unhealthy priorities. How many times have you heard, “Money can’t buy (fill in the blank)?” – The vast majority of these axioms highlighting intrinsic qualities that truly fulfill us as human beings. Yet, too often, we keep spending and dreaming of spending, because we think that is the path to being complete.
Giving back to your church, community, local non-profits, or people in need will change your perspective on money, and on life, really. A true sacrifice (one that is felt in your bank account) can completely alter you as a person – and for the better. Wholehearted giving will help you view every purchase, every financial situation, in a different light.
In all honesty, I hate asking people for money. In a typical presentation to prospective donors or sponsors, I much prefer showing people what their money goes toward. Instead of hearing it from me, why don’t you see for yourself? If I can introduce you to one of the adults receiving services at United Cerebral Palsy or a child taken in by the YWCA daycare program, then I would prefer to do that. Why? Because you will never be the same. If I have to lean on the “tax write-off” selling point, then I know I haven’t really done my job. A hollow check will inevitably help an organization, but I much prefer to build an army of believers for the cause. I want to facilitate a lasting connection.
As a fundraiser, it doesn’t get any better than having someone excited about giving. You see the enthusiasm, the passion, and you know they get it…
If you do not already have this type of connection, this love for a particular cause, then I would love to help you find it.
Forrest shared his wealth with Bubba’s Family, The Fishing Hospital, His Church, and of course, by “Cuttin’ that grass for free.” How can you give back?
Do Good!
Matt
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